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| My momma and me. |
These resources will not remove homosexual feelings/Same-Sex Attractions or any feelings of being a Transgender person/experiencing gender dysphoria.
These resources should not be expected to be a "cure-all" and that you'll be 100% happy in all of your life if you use them.
Your greatest resource is accepting you might not know everything and that everyone worth more than any piece of money through all countries and cultures.
These are resources that, for the most part, I personally have used and enjoyed. They are resources that have helped me in accepting myself, helping others accept and understand me (as much as possible that is), and helped me make a lot of caring friends.
I will expand this list as I continue to find more resources and if I feel that they are helpful.
Groups:
North Star International.
https://northstarlds.org
North Star is an LGBTQ+/LDS group.
There is an FHE group from North Star I've had the luck and blessing to frequently attend. I loved the feelings of camaraderie, peace, and friendship. There are also many discussions on the Facebook group they have. I will say that it can tend to be more of a conservative group. They are very protective about identities since there are people in that group who haven't come out yet.
North Star is an LGBTQ+/LDS group.
There is an FHE group from North Star I've had the luck and blessing to frequently attend. I loved the feelings of camaraderie, peace, and friendship. There are also many discussions on the Facebook group they have. I will say that it can tend to be more of a conservative group. They are very protective about identities since there are people in that group who haven't come out yet.
Blogs:
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| Ben has done many blogs, podcasts, and more. |
These are two personal blogs I've read and have helped put my feelings into words. They are great resources for those who are in the LGBTQ+ community as well as those outside trying to learn more.
Ben Schilaty
When I finally started reading Ben's blog, it was a huge weight off my shoulders. He had a way to put my feelings into words and I've enjoyed reading what he has to say.
http://thegayrm.blogspot.com/
Tristan is a friend of mine and I've enjoyed reading his blog posts and thoughts.
Websites:
This pretty much is, as far as I've seen, the only real resource The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints has provided. They answer questions, clarify that God loves all his children, and speaks on how we should treat others.
http://www.listenlearnandlove.org/
Richard Ostler helped create this website as a resource for Latter-day Saint's who are LGBTQ+ people. There are blogs, podcasts, events and more.
https://ldsvoicesofhope.org/
LDS Voices of hope was very helpful for me soon after I came out. There are videos and stories that really helped me feel that I wasn't alone.
Books:
"That We May Be One" By Tom Christofferson
I had a chance to get an early copy of this book and I can say it's quite amazing. It is more, per my opinion, for non LGBTQ+ people though.
"In Quiet Desperation" By Ty Mansfield
I haven't had the opportunity to read this book yet, but I have been told it's amazing.
Therapists:
I just want to make sure that I clarify I am not being paid to recommend these therapists. Not all therapists are perfect for everyone and I recommend you find the one who best works with you.
Roy Bickel-Therapist at Aspen Counseling Services in American Fork, Utah.
Roy was actually my therapist and he helped me so much with a variety of subjects. His understanding of the struggles that come with being gay were expounded upon while I went to him and he's a great listener.
Alan B. Hansen-Therapist in Provo, Utah
Alan was recommended to me as someone who is good, but I personally have not met him.
Blake Fisher-BYU Therapist.
I've met Blake once and I can confirm he's a really kind man. He is a therapist at BYU (Provo).
http://connectionscs.com/
Before I was public about being gay, a good friend was recommending therapists to me and recommended this group. He has gone and said they were very helpful to him.
Suicide numbers:
https://www.thetrevorproject.org
The Trevor Project has trained counselors available 24/7. A lot of focus is for youth, but I've heard they have helped so many. If you are suicidal, please give them a call.
For Family and Friends
Facebook group: I'll Walk With You.
My father is part of this facebook group he's really enjoyed being a part of. While it is harder for those who are LGBTQ+, there is still a lot of confusion for those who are the parents and want to know what's best to do and say. You'll find many parents who have been where you are and some are at the exact same place. You can search for the group, but members are kept private.
Richard Ostler helped create this website as a resource for Latter-day Saint's who are LGBTQ+ people. There are blogs, podcasts, events and more.
https://ldsvoicesofhope.org/
LDS Voices of hope was very helpful for me soon after I came out. There are videos and stories that really helped me feel that I wasn't alone.
Books:
"That We May Be One" By Tom Christofferson
I had a chance to get an early copy of this book and I can say it's quite amazing. It is more, per my opinion, for non LGBTQ+ people though.
"In Quiet Desperation" By Ty Mansfield
I haven't had the opportunity to read this book yet, but I have been told it's amazing.
Therapists:
I just want to make sure that I clarify I am not being paid to recommend these therapists. Not all therapists are perfect for everyone and I recommend you find the one who best works with you.
Roy Bickel-Therapist at Aspen Counseling Services in American Fork, Utah.
Roy was actually my therapist and he helped me so much with a variety of subjects. His understanding of the struggles that come with being gay were expounded upon while I went to him and he's a great listener.
Alan B. Hansen-Therapist in Provo, Utah
Alan was recommended to me as someone who is good, but I personally have not met him.
Blake Fisher-BYU Therapist.
I've met Blake once and I can confirm he's a really kind man. He is a therapist at BYU (Provo).
http://connectionscs.com/
Before I was public about being gay, a good friend was recommending therapists to me and recommended this group. He has gone and said they were very helpful to him.
Suicide numbers:
https://www.thetrevorproject.org
The Trevor Project has trained counselors available 24/7. A lot of focus is for youth, but I've heard they have helped so many. If you are suicidal, please give them a call.
For Family and Friends
Facebook group: I'll Walk With You.
My father is part of this facebook group he's really enjoyed being a part of. While it is harder for those who are LGBTQ+, there is still a lot of confusion for those who are the parents and want to know what's best to do and say. You'll find many parents who have been where you are and some are at the exact same place. You can search for the group, but members are kept private.
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